First-time buyers made up a historic low of 21% of home purchases in the National Association of REALTORS® 2025 Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers, and their median age rose to 40.1 They arrive with sharp questions and real financial priorities, and the agents who guide them well help them see the full cost of a home: the cash to close, the monthly payment, and what it takes to run and maintain the house over time. This guide explains that full-cost picture and walks through six best practices for assisting first-time homebuyers, from the first budget conversation to their first year in the home. Each practice builds on what you already do, and is organized so you and your buyer can move through every stage together with confidence and fewer surprises.
Every practice in this guide connects back to one idea: a home costs more than its price, and a buyer who sees the total cost of ownership early can make every later decision with more confidence. That picture has three layers. Upfront cash is what the buyer brings to the transaction. Monthly costs are what they pay to carry the loan and the home. Ongoing costs are what it takes to run and care for the house once it is theirs.
Laying out all three layers together is one of the most useful conversations you can have with a first-timer, because it turns an abstract budget into a plan they can shop against. If a buyer assumes they need 20% down, it can help to share that the median first-time buyer down payment in NAR's 2025 Profile was 10%.2 Closing costs are a separate line item, typically 2% to 5% of the purchase price, and a cushion of three to six months of expenses helps a new owner settle in without stretching.3
The table below breaks the full cost into its parts, along with who can help confirm each number.
| Cost layer | What it includes | Typical range or guide | Who helps confirm it |
|---|---|---|---|
| Upfront cash | Down payment | Varies by loan; first-time median was 10%² | Lender |
| Upfront cash | Closing costs | Typically 2% to 5% of purchase price³ | Lender (Loan Estimate) |
| Upfront cash | Inspection, appraisal, moving | Varies by market | Inspector, lender, mover |
| Upfront cash | Emergency cushion | Often 3 to 6 months of expenses³ | Buyer, housing counselor |
| Monthly | Principal and interest | Set by loan amount, rate, and term | Lender |
| Monthly | Property taxes and homeowners insurance | Varies by location and home | Lender, insurance agent |
| Monthly | HOA fees and mortgage insurance (if applicable) | Varies by property and loan | Listing details, lender |
| Ongoing | Utilities and operating costs | Varies by home | Utility history, Pearl SCORE™ Report |
| Ongoing | Maintenance and repairs | A common guide is about 1-2% of the home’s value per year.⁴ | Inspector, contractor |
The six practices below follow the order a first-time buyer moves through the transaction, and each one builds on the full-cost picture above. Use the table as a quick reference, then the sections that follow for the details.
| Practice | Transaction stage | What the buyer walks away with | Helpful resource |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1. Start with the full monthly cost | Before the search | A comfortable payment and cash-to-close figure | CFPB budgeting guidance³ |
| 2. Map the financing and assistance options | Before the search | A chosen loan path and two or three lenders to compare | CFPB, HUD-approved counselors⁵ ⁶ |
| 3. Share the roadmap and the vocabulary | Before the search | A clear picture of what comes next | Written timeline and glossary |
| 4. Evaluate the home beyond the showing | Searching and touring | Questions to ask about each home | Inspection, FEMA flood map, Pearl SCORE Report⁷ ⁸ |
| 5. Prepare them for the offer stage | Offer to contract | An offer they understand, term by term | Loan Estimates, contingency walkthrough |
| 6. Set them up for the first year | Closing and after | A maintenance budget and organized records | Pearl app, insurance agent |
The first conversation sets the tone for everything after it, and starting with money gives a first-timer clear, steady footing. Before touring, help the buyer get a lender letter based on verified financial information, often called a preapproval.9 Then sit down together with the cost breakdown above and build out their full monthly payment and cash-to-close number.
Why it works: A lender's approval shows the maximum a buyer qualifies for. A comfortable payment reflects the buyer's whole life, including savings goals, other expenses, and the ongoing costs of the home. When a buyer shops to that number, they can tour with excitement instead of second-guessing.
What success looks like: The buyer can name their comfortable monthly payment and their cash-to-close number.
Tips for this practice:
Lenders use the terms prequalification and preapproval differently, so ask what the lender actually reviewed rather than relying on the letter's name.9
Encourage the buyer to set a comfortable payment below their maximum approval, then shop to that number.
Once the buyer knows their numbers, the next step is showing them the paths available to reach them. Walk through the main loan types and assistance programs at a high level, using the table below as a starting point. For current local programs, point buyers to HUD-approved housing counselors, who often offer guidance at little or no cost,6 and to their state housing finance agency. Then encourage the buyer to talk with more than one lender now, so they have a short list ready to request Loan Estimates from once they choose a home.10
Why it works: Knowing the options often widens a buyer's path, and comparing lenders can make a meaningful difference. Freddie Mac research found that homebuyers could potentially save $600 to $1,200 annually by getting quotes from multiple lenders.11
This is also a natural moment to help the buyer prepare questions for their lender about how their credit score, debt-to-income ratio, and rate lock timing shape their loan options and their offer. You help them ask good questions, and the lender provides the answers specific to their situation.
What success looks like: The buyer has chosen a loan path and has two or three lenders ready to provide Loan Estimates once they choose a home.
| Option | Who it's designed for | Minimum down payment | Worth knowing |
|---|---|---|---|
| Conventional (low down payment) | Creditworthy buyers; some low down payment programs focus on lower or nontraditional incomes¹² | As low as 3% on some programs¹² | On some programs, mortgage insurance can be canceled once equity reaches 20%¹² |
| FHA | Buyers with smaller savings or lower credit scores | As low as 3.5%¹³ | Mortgage insurance is required on all FHA loans¹³ |
| VA | Eligible service members, veterans, surviving spouses | Often 0%5 | VA guarantee replaces mortgage insurance⁵ |
| USDA | Low- and moderate-income buyers in eligible rural areas | 0%5 | There’s an upfront fee and ongoing premiums⁵ |
| State and local assistance | Often first-time, low- and moderate-income buyers | Varies | Many programs focus on first-time buyers; terms change, so confirm locally⁵ |
A first home purchase involves many steps and unfamiliar terms, and a simple written roadmap gives the buyer something steady to come back to. Hand your buyer this one-page timeline. The glossary below is pre-written so you can drop each term in when it comes up.
Why it works: Knowing what comes next turns an unfamiliar process into a series of manageable steps, and defining terms in context helps them stick.
What success looks like: The buyer can describe the next two stages of their purchase without looking at their notes.
| Stage | What happens | Typical timing |
|---|---|---|
| Budget and pre-approval | Full-cost budget, lender application, pre-approval letter | Varies by lender |
| Choosing an agent | Buyer agreement and consultation | Varies |
| Search and touring | Shortlist, showings, home evaluation | Varies by market |
| Offer | Offer terms, contingencies, earnest money, Loan Estimates from shortlisted lenders | Varies by contract and market; each lender sends a Loan Estimate within 3 business days of receiving an application that includes the property address¹⁴ |
| Inspection and appraisal | Inspection within the contingency window; lender orders appraisal | Set by contract; inspection windows commonly run 7 to 10 days from offer acceptance¹⁵ |
| Underwriting to closing | Lender verifies finances and property | Purchase loans averaged 36.8 days from application to closing in March 2026, about 11 days to rate lock and 26 more to close (national average; individual timelines vary)¹⁶ |
| Closing | Closing Disclosure review, final walkthrough, signing | Buyer must receive the Closing Disclosure at least 3 business days before closing¹⁷ |
Note: Pair the roadmap with a short glossary the buyer can keep handy.
| Term | Plain-language meaning | When it comes up |
|---|---|---|
| Pre-qualification / pre-approval | A lender letter estimating how much it is willing to lend, based on certain assumptions. It is not a guaranteed loan offer, and lenders use the two terms differently⁹ | Early budgeting, before touring |
| Loan Estimate | A standardized form showing a loan's estimated terms and costs, sent within 3 business days of an application that includes the property address¹⁴ | Once the buyer has chosen a home |
| Earnest money | A good-faith deposit showing the buyer intends to close. It is held in escrow and is separate from the down payment¹⁸ | At offer |
| Contingency | A condition in the purchase contract, such as inspection, appraisal, or financing, that must be resolved for the sale to proceed¹⁸ | At offer |
| Escrow | A neutral third party holding funds until contract terms are met. The term also refers to an account used for property taxes and insurance³ ¹⁸ | Offer through ownership |
| Points | A one-time fee paid at closing for a lower interest rate; one point equals 1% of the loan amount¹⁹ | Comparing loans |
| Mortgage insurance | Insurance that protects the lender, required on some loan types such as FHA and USDA⁵ ¹³ | Comparing loans |
| Rate lock | A lender's commitment that the interest rate will not change before closing, as long as the buyer closes within the set time frame and the application does not change²⁰ | After choosing a lender |
| Closing Disclosure | The final statement of loan terms and closing costs, received at least 3 business days before closing¹⁷ | Before closing |
This is where the buyer's priorities and the full-cost picture come together. Before touring, help the buyer separate their must-haves from their nice-to-haves, so they can enjoy showings while keeping their decision anchored to what matters most to them.
Then, for each home on the shortlist, layer a few tools that each answer a different question. The showing tells the buyer how a home looks and feels. The inspection reports on its current condition. A Pearl SCORE Report documents the home's performance features across five pillars and shows how the home compares to nearby homes.8 The FEMA flood map shows the home's mapped flood zone, and because most homeowners insurance policies exclude flood, an insurance quote helps the buyer understand coverage costs before an offer.7 Neighborhood factors like commute and schools round out the picture.
Why it works: Each tool answers a different question, so together they give the buyer a fuller picture before they commit, including a clearer view of the ongoing-cost layer covered earlier.
Using Pearl SCORE Reports with your buyers: Agents using Pearl for Professionals can pull a Pearl SCORE Report for any single-family home on a buyer's shortlist today and share it with the buyer.8 Walking through the five pillars together is a natural way to turn what you see into thoughtful questions for the inspector. The report helps buyers prepare for the inspection, and the inspection remains the step that evaluates the home's condition.
What success looks like: The buyer has a written list of questions for each home they are seriously considering.
Each evaluation tool fits a specific moment in the process. The table below shows what each one helps a buyer understand and when it tends to be most useful.
What Each Tool Tells a Buyer
When you walk through a Pearl SCORE Report together, the five pillars always appear in the same order, and each one documents a different set of features.
| Pillar | What it documents |
|---|---|
| Safety | Features tied to indoor air, water, and occupant safety, such as radon mitigation or carbon monoxide detection |
| Comfort | Features tied to temperature consistency, humidity, drafts, daylighting, and outdoor noise |
| Operations | HVAC, insulation, air sealing, ductwork, building envelope, and water-efficient features |
| Resilience | Features that help a home prepare for outages and extreme weather, such as backup battery storage |
| Energy | Solar, solar-paired battery storage, EV charging, and smart energy management |
By the time a buyer is ready to write an offer, a little preparation goes a long way. Most agents already walk buyers through what a strong offer includes: price, earnest money, financing, timeline, and contingencies. With a first-time buyer, that conversation does extra work. It’s often their first look at how quickly competitive markets can move, and it’s a natural moment to set the expectation together that a first offer may not be accepted. Many agents also find it helps to say plainly that walking away is always a legitimate choice.
Once the buyer has a specific home in mind, it's time to request Loan Estimates from the lenders on their short list. A Loan Estimate requires the property address but not a signed contract,14 so buyers can request them as they prepare an offer. Encourage them to compare their Loan Estimates on the same day, since rates change frequently.10
Contingencies deserve their own conversation, since each one protects the buyer in a specific way.18 The table below offers a simple framework for talking through each one before the buyer decides whether to keep or waive it.
Why it works: A buyer who has talked through the possible outcomes before writing an offer decides more steadily. This table gives you the questions to cover.
What success looks like: The buyer understands each contingency they keep or waive, and why.
| Contingency | What it protects | Questions to discuss before waiving |
|---|---|---|
| Inspection | Time to learn the home's condition and decide how to proceed | Is the buyer comfortable with unknown repair costs? |
| Appraisal | Protection if the appraisal comes in below the offer | Does the buyer have cash to cover a gap? |
| Financing | Protection if the loan falls through | How firm is the lender's approval? |
| Home sale (if applicable) | Protection if the buyer must sell first | Rare for first-timers; confirm whether it applies |
Closing day is a milestone, and the weeks before it are a great time to help the buyer prepare for what comes next. Help them build a maintenance budget; a common guide is 1% to 2% of the purchase price per year.4 Review what their homeowners insurance covers and what may need separate coverage, such as flood.7 Encourage them to set up one place for important documents, so the Closing Disclosure, deed, inspection report, and warranties are easy to find later.
This is also a good moment to invite the buyer to claim their home in the Pearl app. Claiming makes the home's profile more complete and gives the new owner a place to record improvements over time.
Why it works: Ownership costs begin the day after closing. A buyer who has a plan for maintenance, coverage, and records can settle into their new home with confidence.
What success looks like: The buyer has a maintenance budget, understands their coverage, and has their records organized.
| Item | What to do | Resource |
|---|---|---|
| Maintenance budget | Set aside a monthly amount toward the annual guide | USU Extension guidance⁴ |
| Insurance review | Confirm what the policy covers; ask about flood coverage | Insurance agent, FEMA⁷ |
| Important documents | Store the Closing Disclosure, deed, inspection report, and warranties together | Buyer's own files |
| Home profile | Claim the home in the Pearl app and record improvements over time | Pearl app |
| Service contacts | Save inspector and contractor contacts from the transaction | Agent referral list |
Clear, patient communication is something experienced agents already do well, and it carries extra weight with a first-time buyer who is learning the process as they go. Plain language, room for questions, and a steady pace help the buyer feel like a partner in every decision.
One simple habit makes a real difference: after each key conversation, send the buyer a short written summary of what you discussed and what comes next. It gives them something to review on their own time and to share with anyone helping them decide. The table below highlights moments where a written follow-up is especially helpful.
| Moment | What to send | Why it helps |
|---|---|---|
| After the budget conversation | Comfortable payment and cash-to-close summary | Keeps the search anchored to the plan |
| After choosing a loan path | Lender contacts and next documents needed | Keeps underwriting moving |
| After each showing | Questions and notes per home | Makes comparison easier later |
| After the inspection | Summary of items and next decisions | Keeps choices clear and calm |
| Before closing | Closing checklist and what to bring | Makes closing day predictable |
Assisting a first-time homebuyer well comes down to helping them see the whole picture: what it takes to buy the home, what it costs each month, and what it takes to care for it over time. The six practices in this guide follow that picture from the first budget conversation to the first year of ownership, and each one builds on the skills you already bring to every client relationship.
If you would like to bring home performance into the shortlisting conversation, a Pearl SCORE Report offers a clear, shareable view of a home's documented features across all five pillars.8 After closing, inviting buyers to claim their home in the Pearl app gives them a place to keep building on that picture as they make the home their own.
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